The story of Samson has all the elements of a major Hollywood blockbuster. First you have the handsome, supernaturally strong, and unbeatable Samson who, also, unfortunately, has a penchant for the ladies (and the ladies of the night). Then there’s Delilah who steals Samson’s heart and will eventually cause his downfall and destruction. During each encounter Delilah seeks to learn the secret to Samson’s strength and success so she can betray him to his enemies, the Philistines. After toying with her repeatedly (we all know toying with sin never works out well), he finally discloses that his hair is the key to his power. You know the rest of the story. Delilah cuts off his locks, Samson loses his strength, he is apprehended by the Philistines, tortured, and then in one final act of supernatural power, pulls down the columns and roof of the meeting hall on himself and the unsuspecting Philistine detractors.
But the secret to the downfall of Samson began long before his betrayal. Samson’s demise began when he chose to ignore his parent’s sage counsel to not get involved with Philistine women like Delilah, but rather seek out a woman among those of like precious faith and values. Judges 14:3 says, “His father and mother replied, isn’t there an acceptable woman among your relatives or among all our people? Must you go to the uncircumcised Philistines to get a wife?” Samson, pleading his love for the Philistine beauty (all reason is thrown to the wind once the soul tie is formed), rejected his parent’s admonition, eventually took the Philistine woman Delilah as his own, and in ignoring his father, Samson crafted his own destruction.
In reading the story in the Bible you will notice that the voice of his parents became silent. Believers following in Samson’s footsteps should not take the eventual silence of the father or mother on this matter as an endorsement of what they are doing. The silence is motivated in a desire to not alienate the child over the relationship he has chosen to enter against his father’s wishes. The silence, is actually an indictment of the lack of honor shown to the father on such a critical matter. The true reason for Samson’s downfall was that he failed to honor his father in such an important life decision. Think of how different the story would have read if Samson had listened to his parents. Think of all the divine appointments he missed and the destiny he failed to fulfill all over one simple decision. I encourage you to keep you heart open to the guidance of your natural and spiritual parents. Their wise counsel in due season could save you from a world of hurt and disappointment later on in life.